And I know what you are thinking...I already have a life. But you would not be reading this if you where a super confident guy. What I mean by getting a life is that you need to start filling your life with what interests you. If you used to love playing baseball (soccer, tennis, bowling, etc.), join a league. If you have always wanted to learn how to fly an teen chat airplane, go back to school, or learn how to race cars...get involved with whatever interests you.
And here what you can't do. Do not choose something like video games and sit in front of your TV all day. Interacting with fictional characters or even chatting online with people you do not know is not going to increase your self-confidence.
